You should be more careful about selecting husbands.
Really? If a person is determined to hide who they are, what test would you use to guarantee they are not a latent homosexual?
When I was 17 years old, the father of my friend of mine left his family for a gay life. That was as disturbing to know then as it is to hear now. The damage to the children that are caught in such a situation is unimaginable.
To do that to a family and children is extremely selfish.
So you're gonna blame her?
He lied to her when he pronounced his marriage vows. What was she supposed to do, hire somebody to do a polygraph?
If he had any honor or sense of decency he should have kept his word and stayed with her. Many men--- no matter what their orientation label --- get tempted by the promise of better sexual gratification outside of marriage, be it with a woman, a man, a boy, or just somebody more young and sexy.
The commandment is not "Thou shalt not sin ... unless thou art really, really, tempted."
He should repent and go back to be a better husband to his one-and-only wife, and a better father for his children.
"Gay" is no excuse. It's like any and every adulterer who ever said, "Hey, what could I do? I'm a horn-dog!"
This makes me vomit.anyone sympathizing with vile sodomites after reading this needs their head checked. Ship this BA**** and his vile partner to the Islamic State. They are enemies of all that is good. This poor woman.
You vastly oversimplify.
I have personally been closely acquainted with women in similar situations. Not with the kids being treated this way, thankfully.
In neither case could the woman have foreseen something like this happening.
My thoughts also.
That's really not fair, unless you know them. And in view of his being able to father children with her, he can't have that big of a problem being with women. He chose to take vows and then to break them.
I worked in the arts for decades. I met many effeminate men who were faithfully married to women and who were dads; and likewise, many masculine-appearing men who engaged in the gay life. You wouldn't know unless they revealed it.
LOL!!!
It’s actually possible to happen to just about anyone. Even if everything is done right, I have seen a number of women act perfectly like someone who is interested in guys to only suddenly “come out” after having been married for years. I have seen people who married and were decent people in what they did turn over to adultery. It can happen, even when you are careful.