[ifinnegan]

The part I am commenting on is the extremism with which you present it.

As if it is worthy of condemnation.

What did Paul say about marriage and being married?

The Bible says a lot of things and none contradict each other and all work together.

[DoughtyOne]

It is extreme to consider that God could be displeased that a person went their whole life without experiencing one of the most amazing gifts to mankind?

Okay, if you say so.

Let me ask you this. If man is supposed to minister to his wife like Christ does to the church, don't you think it would be wrong for man to withhold himself from his church?

Don't you think it would be wrong for the church to cut itself off from Christ?

Explain to me what value a church has without Christ.

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