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Contraception gave us divorce and gay ‘marriage’ and will destroy us: here’s how
LifeSiteNews ^ | 3/4/15 | David F. Prentis

Posted on 03/05/2015 8:05:00 AM PST by wagglebee

March 4, 2015 (LifeSiteNews.com) -- Although there has always been contraception, its acceptance and practice by society as a whole is a relatively new phenomenon. In the first part of the 20th century barrier methods became through mass production increasingly used. However, with the advent of the hormonal contraceptive pill in the 1960s the contraceptive era, ushering in the sexual revolution, really took off.

The term “revolution” is by no means exaggerated, for the result was a fundamental change in the understanding of human sexuality in society. With the pill, people thought, nothing can happen, i.e. no child could be conceived. Inhibitions broke down, so that there was an increase in adultery, living together before marriage and living together with no thought of marriage. Amoral sex education with the message, “You can do anything you like so long as your partner agrees and you use contraception. If there is an accident, have an abortion,” promoted sexual promiscuity from puberty onwards. Sexual activity has been degraded into a form of entertainment.

The immediate consequences of promiscuity starting in adolescence are obvious: the rampant increase of sexually transmitted diseases, infertility and the incapability of forming long-term relationships through frequent changes of partners and repeated disappointments.

The assumption that “nothing can happen” is erroneous, because contraceptives are by no means 100% effective. Children are conceived, and such “errors” must be corrected – the child is aborted.[1] The result has been devastating: the number of babies killed by abortion every year is about the same as the total number of deaths in the whole of World War II.

Apart from the carnage, enormous havoc is created in the relationship of the parents, whether married or not, very often leading to its breakdown. It would also be naive to imagine that Catholic women never resort to abortion.

The situation of couples practising NFP however is quite different. They are aware every day of the state of their fertility, asking themselves whether the marriage act on that day would result in conception; they do not lose sight of the child who could be conceived. They do not forget the fundamental purpose of the act. An unplanned child is therefore usually accepted.

The widespread practice of abortion leads to euthanasia. If it is acceptable to kill one category of people, then it is logically acceptable to kill others, specifically the ill, the handicapped and the old, for human life is no longer sacred. A chilling example of this kind of development can be seen in the National Socialist regime in Germany.

The pill “culture” leads to the rejection of children, small families, and a demographic winter. In the long-term it will be impossible to pay pensions. For couples practising NFP however, the child is neither an error nor a threat. Their natural love of children is not destroyed. They have larger families. The 15 teaching couples in our organisation, for example, have 62 children so far, an average of 4.1 per family.

The separation of sexual activity from child-bearing leads to the acceptance of the production of children through assisted reproduction without recourse to the marital act in the case of infertility. Through IVF society is being led, inspired by Aldous Huxley’s Brave New World, to the acceptance of controlled reproduction. Human beings are reduced to products. They are mass produced, selected, rejected, frozen or used in experiments. They are treated as material goods, in short, as slaves.

Slavery has been formally reintroduced into society. A doctor, whether mixing sperm and eggs in a Petri dish or injecting a sperm into an egg, is playing God. The arrogance of it! Surely this modern sin should be listed amongst those which cry to heaven.

When the practice of sterilised sexual intercourse is accepted, it leads logically to the acceptance of all practices leading to orgasm: oral, anal, homosexual acts, etc. The whole homosexual movement has become possible only through the general acceptance of contraceptive practice and the reduction of sexuality to a source of entertainment.

The practice of contraception within marriage contains within itself the mutual rejection of the spouses. It leads to the destruction of love. It belongs to the nature of love to give oneself, even to the point of sacrifice, seen eminently in the self-sacrifice of Christ on the cross. Even in our ordinary life a mother’s sacrifice of herself for her child is by no means exceptional. A mother will naturally go to great lengths to help her child, exceptionally even giving up her own life. The marriage act is meant to be an act of mutual love. The natural fruit of that love is the child. The spouses give and receive each other mutually completely. Even during the naturally infertile days of the cycle they give each other all they have at that time – their mutual love.

But if they use contraception they say to each other subconsciously, “I do give myself to you, but without my fertility, and I don’t want your fertility either.” Is that love? The act which in its nature expresses the total self-giving and receiving of the spouses contains an element of rejection, and therefore becomes a lie. When this act of rejection is systematically and continually repeated, love dies. The marriage is at least burdened. Many marriages break down.

Couples who use NFP do not practise this subconscious, systematic rejection. From personal experience and observation of our clients we see that such marriages are more stable. This is also shown in studies. Greater stability is evident even in those without religious practice. [2]

Contraception, which leads logically to other evils as described above, is destroying society. There are too few children and nations are dying out. It leads to abortion, as those who promote it concede. The combination of promoting promiscuity through Godless sex education, the long-term use of hormonal contraception with back-up abortions and the postponement of child-bearing leads to increased infertility.

The solution offered is not a true therapy of infertility, but assisted reproduction which bypasses the normal process of transmission of life through the marriage act. The long-term purpose of this policy could well be the desire to subject reproduction to state control, which would allow only those children to be born who pass quality control. At present this is illusory, but the tendency can be seen. It would appear that an elite group wishes to create a society of virtual slaves obedient to their desires. A new totalitarianism is being formed.

To this end it is necessary to destroy or at least weaken marriage and the family. For this purpose contraception, especially the convenient hormonal forms, is eminently suitable. And those who pour their millions into the homosexual movement and the gender ideology are not concerned with helping homosexuals and those with problems of sexual identity. Rather they are using these people to extend the concept of marriage and ultimately to widen its meaning so much as to make it meaningless.

 


[1] Baklinski, P, Two-thirds of women seeking abortions were using contraception: Britain’s largest abortion provider, http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/two-thirds-of-women-seeking-abortions-were-using-contraception-britains-lar

[2] Wilson, M.A.: The Practice of Natural Family Planning versu the Use of Artificial Birth Control: Family, Sexual and Moral Issues, Catholic Social Sceince Review, Volume VII, November 2002.

Rhomberg, W., Rhomberg, M, Weißenbach, H.: Natural Family Planning (NFP): The Symptothermal Method (Rötzer) as a Familiy Binding Tool. Results of a Survey among Members of INER, 2008, http://www.iner.org/files/02_anwenden/Download/NER%20Survey%202008%20Cathol%20Soc%20Sci%20Rev.pdf



TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: contraception; euthanasia; homosexulagenda; moralabsolutes; samesexmarriage
And those who pour their millions into the homosexual movement and the gender ideology are not concerned with helping homosexuals and those with problems of sexual identity. Rather they are using these people to extend the concept of marriage and ultimately to widen its meaning so much as to make it meaningless.

Perfectly stated!

1 posted on 03/05/2015 8:05:00 AM PST by wagglebee
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2 posted on 03/05/2015 8:05:54 AM PST by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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3 posted on 03/05/2015 8:06:53 AM PST by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: wagglebee
Contraception gave us divorce and . . .

The problem with the article is that easy divorce laws (1950's) preceded contraception (1060's).

4 posted on 03/05/2015 8:11:34 AM PST by aimhigh (1 John 3:23)
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To: wagglebee

I agree with the premise of this article. In terms of its impact on our culture and our morality, “The Pill” was the most influential invention of the 20th century. It permanently removed the biological implications from sex, and divorced the basest human instincts from any consequences. That license gave rise to additional decay that we see every day, and which will eventually cause the collapse of our civilization.


5 posted on 03/05/2015 8:14:54 AM PST by IronJack
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To: aimhigh

And the eugenics movement, with Margaret Sanger and “Planned Parenthood” came before that. And so on ...

It was the devaluation of human life and marriage that cause this downward slope. Contraception, divorce, and deviant lifestyles are the outcomes, not the sources.


6 posted on 03/05/2015 8:22:30 AM PST by kosciusko51
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To: wagglebee

I’ve wondered for a number of years whether the event leading to the fracturing of the US (and, possibly, CWII) would be abortion or homosexuality.

Appears at this point that it will be homosexuality.


7 posted on 03/05/2015 8:23:16 AM PST by Arm_Bears (Rope. Tree. Politician. Some assembly required.)
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To: Arm_Bears

That’s because most people who have an abortion are not being promoted 24/7 in the media...


8 posted on 03/05/2015 8:24:57 AM PST by kosciusko51
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To: aimhigh
The problem with the article is that easy divorce laws (1950's) preceded contraception (1060's).

No-fault divorce was first introduced in California in 1969.

9 posted on 03/05/2015 8:26:04 AM PST by Petrosius
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To: IronJack

I believe we might put the fall of our civilization in past tense since no civilized culture practices human sacrifice.


10 posted on 03/05/2015 8:26:54 AM PST by huldah1776
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To: aimhigh

Wow.

The Printing Press gave us AIDS.


11 posted on 03/05/2015 8:34:56 AM PST by Uncle Miltie (Bush / Clinton 2016! Clinton / Bush 2020! Uniparty Forever!)
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To: wagglebee

Exactly ..!!


12 posted on 03/05/2015 8:36:49 AM PST by CyberAnt ("The hope and changey stuff did not work, even a smidgen.")
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To: Arm_Bears
I’ve wondered for a number of years whether the event leading to the fracturing of the US (and, possibly, CWII) would be abortion or homosexuality.

I think it will be both.

We are about a decade away from seeing as a nation the disastrous effect that 60 million abortions has had on the economy. Younger Baby Boomers will be retiring in a period where there simply aren't enough taxpayers to fund Social Security and corporations that have relied on the relative affluence of Baby Boomer retirees will have a new generation of retirees who have less money AND a much smaller population.

13 posted on 03/05/2015 8:40:44 AM PST by wagglebee ("A political party cannot be all things to all people." -- Ronald Reagan, 3/1/75)
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To: wagglebee

I believe America will collapse before that. The debt and the lack of enforce borders will see to that.


14 posted on 03/05/2015 9:03:07 AM PST by rcofdayton (.)
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Contraception gave us more than divorce ..

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15 posted on 03/05/2015 9:52:30 AM PST by NYer (Without justice - what else is the State but a great band of robbers? - St. Augustine)
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To: aimhigh
". . . easy divorce laws (1950's) preceded contraception (1060's).

No, easy divorce laws came along well after the latex condom that was cheap to produce and fairly reliable which is where mass use of contraception began, not with chemical means that are in reality abortifacients that keep a fertilized egg from being able to remain in the womb.

What came along in the sixties wasn't contraception, it was mass noninvasive abortion that people could wink, nod, and call contraception without the hassle of a condom that was actually intended to prevent conception, not abort an infant.

16 posted on 03/05/2015 10:03:00 AM PST by Rashputin (Jesus Christ doesn't evacuate His troops, He leads them to victory.)
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To: aimhigh

Well, some divorces are understandable, like the Declaration from Independence from England and its Church! which were corrupt.

except nowadays with gay marriage, such divorce from corruption is now heresy. All those people who crapped on marriage now all of a sudden find themselves praising gay marriage and allegiances to abomopinations such as government motivated or even mandated abortion.

freedom of choice? no such thing with the pro death people.


17 posted on 03/05/2015 11:05:25 AM PST by lavaroise (A well regulated gun being necessary to the state, the rights of the militia shall no)
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To: Uncle Miltie

You’re right: cause and effect is a myth.


18 posted on 03/15/2015 8:50:48 AM PDT by TradicalRC (Extra Ecclesiam nulla salus.)
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