You could say that about Jihadists beheading Christians 8,000 miles away, but I don't think it is true.
A baby has exactly two parents. All situations which deprive the baby of the protection of those two parents are much less than ideal for the baby.
Such lack of ideality may not create an obligation on your part to act, but I think it creates an obligation to judge and to refuse support.
It brings to mind the joke that one should not become so open-minded that one's brain falls out.
These days children often have several adults parenting them and all too frequently it's the grandparents finding themselves parenting to grandchildren who've been effectively abandoned by their selfish birth parents.