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One Mom at a Time
Townhall.com ^ | April 30, 2015 | Rich Galen

Posted on 04/30/2015 4:36:16 PM PDT by Kaslin

Baltimore is only about 40 miles from Washington, DC. For decades Baltimore was where we went to watch Major League Baseball. There was a stadium in the middle of a neighborhood on 33rd Street.

We commiserated with the city when the owners of the Baltimore Colts NFL team snuck out of town, literally, in the dead of night and surfaced in Indianapolis.

The Inner Harbor has been a showplace for the revitalization of a downtown area since it was substantially completed in 1965. The Orioles and the Baltimore Ravens have stadiums that share a parking lot adjacent to the area.

That is the Baltimore visitors know.

The other Baltimore exploded on TV sets turned to news outlets earlier this week – riots blamed on the death of yet another Black man in the control of a police force. This time his name was Freddie Gray and, while we don’t want to belittle Mr. Gray’s memory, he could have been – and has been – too many names in too many places.

We have discussed before the notion that the veneer of civilization is very thin. We have societies that generally operate in relative peace only by a mutual compact that we will not shoot, stab or punch one another, nor will we use our vehicles as multi-ton weapons at busy intersections.

We have laws that enforce those understandings but, as we saw Monday in Baltimore, once the compact is broken there aren’t enough cops, state troopers, or national guard personnel to stop it while the madness is going on.

There is a fine line to be walked in assigning blame or making excuses for riots as we saw this week. The CVS (and the other 14 buildings) that burned down didn’t have anything to do with the Freddy Gray issue. Nor did the more than 140 cars and trucks that were torched.

As usual it was the mom-and-pop type stores and shops that will suffer the greatest losses. Many insurance policies specifically rule out being reimbursed by damaged caused by civil unrest which this certainly was.

They didn’t have anything to do with Freddie Gray, either.

Are we all responsible for the conditions in that part of Baltimore that resulted in wholesale rioting?

Nope. I’m not responsible for that. And neither, by the way, is President Obama.

If a lack of jobs is the problem, then create more jobs for young Black kids who have no way to make a buck except selling drugs to one another? Then utilize the tools that governments have available – including the tax code – to create an economy that is growing.

You may have missed the fact that the U.S. economy was just about flat for the first quarter. The Washington Post reported that “the gross domestic product grew between January and March at an annualized rate of 0.2 percent” based upon numbers released by the Department of Commerce.

That’s not my fault, either, but before our civic and political leaders step before microphones and cameras to wail about the lack of opportunities in places like Baltimore, they should come armed with a list of fixes.

But, somehow I don’t think opening up more job training centers is going to solve this.

I have heard a lot of descriptions and analyses of the problems, but precious few ideas on how to remedy them.

One answer is to rebuild families. We’ve all seen the video of Toya Graham slapping her son who was wearing a facemask and a hoodie and dragging him away from the rioting.

I hope that the media microscope under which she now finds herself doesn’t do her harm, but, as a metaphor, maybe Ms. Graham is where we can at least start looking for the answers.

A single mother of six who went out into the danger to rescue her kid. That’s what mothers have been doing for millions of evolutionary years.

This is a dangerous time in a dangerous world.

We need to help Toya Graham and all the Toya Grahams aim their kids in the right direction. Slapping them around is probably not the optimal approach, but as an act of getting him to move out of immediate peril, it worked.

So, if we want to help, let’s start a national – a worldwide – movement to create the tools and environment to help mothers like Toya Graham help their kids.

We can do that. And we can have an impact.

Even if it’s one mom at a time.


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1 posted on 04/30/2015 4:36:16 PM PDT by Kaslin
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To: Kaslin

I hadnt thought of it that way before but she did indeed “rescue” him.


2 posted on 04/30/2015 4:52:35 PM PDT by buckeye49 (HOPE IS NOT A STRATEGY-TED CRUZ FOR PRESIDENT!!)
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To: Kaslin

This focus on Toya Graham is a little out of place.

In a single moment, she saved one of her son’s from being a part of the problem. But there is more to it than that. What of her life and how is it that she has six kids (potentially from as any fathers) and yet she had reasonably nice clothes, tattoos, her nails done, her hair done, and it doesn’t appear that she’s missed to many meals.

It begets the questions that need to be answered.

What becomes of Ms. Graham after her litter of children leave home?

What becomes of those fatherless children after they leave home.

What sort of families with her son(s) sire if they live long enough?

And finally, how is it possible for this woman to procreate in this manner. Each of her offspring are grist for the mill of violence and criminality that passes for culture in the black areas of the cities.

While a single instance of normal parenting has gained her five minutes of fame as it were, one has to ask why did her son believe that participation in a domestic terrorism event, was the proper action.


3 posted on 04/30/2015 4:53:38 PM PDT by Ouderkirk (To the left, everything must evidence that this or that strand of leftist theory is true)
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To: Kaslin

I would say that Baktimore has slid down hill in the last 20 years. I remember going to the Inner Harbor and bar hopping in Fell’s point back in the late 80’s. If I were to take my family to the Inner Harbor today, it would have to be in the daytime and I would definitely exercise my unfair privilege to carry. No way I would go at night.


4 posted on 04/30/2015 5:27:29 PM PDT by USNBandit (sarcasm engaged at all times)
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Haven't been to the Inner Harbor in 15-20 years and don't miss it. I no longer want or need to be where large numbers of people congregate.

Too dangerous.

5 posted on 04/30/2015 5:48:01 PM PDT by rllngrk33 (Things will continue getting worse until at least January 2017.)
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To: Kaslin

“So, if we want to help, let’s start a national – a worldwide – movement to create the tools and environment to help mothers like Toya Graham help their kids.

We can do that. And we can have an impact.

Even if it’s one mom at a time.”

Good for her, and I’d invite her and her worthless little b#$tard son over for dinner, because I respect the hell out of her for having the guts to do what she did.

But none of it will be fixed until BLACK MEN become MEN and act like it.


6 posted on 04/30/2015 5:51:29 PM PDT by AbnSarge
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To: Kaslin
The CVS (and the other 14 buildings) that burned down didn’t have anything to do with the Freddy Gray issue. Nor did the more than 140 cars and trucks that were torched.

No bias here...
Until the mask of impartiality slipped...

The cars and trucks were torched (by the police?,) but apparently the 14 buildings just spontaneously caught on fire...

7 posted on 04/30/2015 7:02:53 PM PDT by publius911 (If you like Obamacare, You'll LOVE ObamaWeb.)
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To: Kaslin
If a lack of jobs is the problem, then create more jobs for young Black kids who have no way to make a buck except selling drugs to one another? Then utilize the tools that governments have available – including the tax code – to create an economy that is growing.

How do you do that? Create jobs for thugs who have been entitled all their lives, are uneducated, undisciplined, unmotivated, and literally unable to do anything useful?

Has there been a new Federal position of "Job Czar Fairy" that I somehow missed?

Incidentally no federal regime can "create jobs" (the depression exception was possible only because people actually could, and were able and willing, to work.)

That magic no longer exists.

8 posted on 04/30/2015 7:11:17 PM PDT by publius911 (If you like Obamacare, You'll LOVE ObamaWeb.)
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To: Ouderkirk
It begets the questions that need to be answered.

The first one that occurred to me, concerned as that mother genuinely appears to be, she didn't think to wonder why her son owned and wore the classic black thug uniform? It never occurred to her?

Juvenile fashions come and go, but this one has been a "red flag" for parents for decades now. A rational fashion affectation appropriate only during winters.

Or the year-round season of mischief. Or worse.

9 posted on 04/30/2015 7:24:46 PM PDT by publius911 (If you like Obamacare, You'll LOVE ObamaWeb.)
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To: publius911
How do you do that? Create jobs for thugs who have been entitled all their lives, are uneducated, undisciplined, unmotivated, and literally unable to do anything useful?

This, unfortunately, is the real issue -- and the elephant in the room, as I have often thought.

We (also Europe) have produced a large underclass of people nobody really knows what to do with. Be it low intelligence, mental illness, or cultural pathology, they seem to be a lost cause.

Racism alone can't be blamed. Nor "bad luck." Many suffer setbacks -- loss of job, medical problem, etc. -- but seem to get help, find resources, religious & spiritual support. Not all acquire or recover wealth, but they somehow can lead or resume responsible lives.

These people can't. They just lack the inner tools. How many are really employable? How many are really redeemable? There will always be some, maybe, who either find the right help or pull themselves up by the bootstraps. But they're tragically a different kind of "1%."

10 posted on 04/30/2015 10:51:52 PM PDT by MoochPooch (I'm a compassionate cynic.)
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