You don’t know the day or the hour. Wow.
How wonderful that they both got to go together....although sleeping would have been preferred I am sure. I think it is wonderful that either one had to see the other die. That in a way is a gift especially after being married over 60 years. Losing a spouse is horrible but very rarely do both go at the same time. I wouldn’t mind dying at the exact minute as my wife (but I don’t know about a car crash)....