When you find yourself “at sea” in a deviant culture, you have to recognize it first and foremost.
Once you recognize it, then you know what to do. Build your own tribe. Build the culture you want to live in. Build the institutions you want to use. Create the music and arts, create the physical world you want to live in.
Shut off the paths by which the deviant culture gets access to you and yours. Replace them with your own. Do this with enough panache and you will find people beating a path to your door, some to shut you down, others to emulate you or buy your products.
The tough part of this is that “THEY” are not content to leave ‘us’ alone...