No it isn’t all about feelings! I adopted 3 babies who might have otherwise have been aborted and I also adopted dozens of dogs and cats that might have been put down. My actions made me feel good, have you done anything similar that makes you feel good?
You have been generous in your love.
I don't share on this forum very much of what I have done, and whether I feel one way or another about it is irrelevant. Love is action, not feelings.