That's why I don't "love the sinner" when it comes to enemies like militant homosexuals. I don't think most of here do, either. I just don't waste my breath pretending to love them.
both strict passivity Christianity and Buddhism cede themselves to self extinction
We are commanded to love all, even the sinners.
But be prepared to kill the sinners, with neither malice nor regret.
Not unlike killing a rattlesnake in your house.