“so where do I fit in?â€
Well, nowhere, actually.
They’ve been lost since childhood, stuck in early adolescence with their black youoweme attitude, ebonics, white-hate, slothfulness, and hatefulness.
I’d wager most of them need to go back to fourth grade with a loving, working, live at home father to possibly recover.
You’re absolutely right; she is an anomaly left behind by the institution of slavery. She (and other like-minded tokens) are today’s dodo birds, and today’s immigrants (including those from Africa) are the “sailors” that will drive them to extinction.