Cruise had relationships with older women, including Rebecca De Mornay, three years his senior; Patti Scialfa, nine years his senior; and Cher, 16 years his senior. Cruise married actress Mimi Rogers on May 9, 1987. He was 24 and she was 32. Cruise met his second wife, actress Nicole Kidman, on the set of their film Days of Thunder in 1989. The couple married on December 24, 1990. On November 18, 2006, Katie Holmes and Cruise were married. Gay? Unsubstantiated.
Over-casual about marriage? Over-enthusiastic and over-emotional?
Yes.