Send your request with a copy of your ID.
I don’t subscribe to the idea that unless you cover every single contingency, a plan is useless.
I think we can figure something out...if we are serious.
I was more questioning your wording.
To me ‘dire’ means something other than ‘we’ve got vacation scheduled for then and won’t be here’.
And I’m not sure that having them send in a copy of their ID does you any good.
If I have a sample ID for that state, and I believe there is a website (or was) that showed what every states ID looks like, I can whip up a perfect one in just a few minutes.