I don't even try to understand. In college I worked for awhile as a ‘bouncer’ at a club. I surely wasn't making much money, and was just trying to make my way, but the fact I was ‘a bouncer’ led to interest from a lot of women (girls). I'd never experienced this prior to that. I couldn't understand why. That was just one of the experiences I've had in life that has led me to stop trying to understand the opposite sex.
Hey I was a cocktail waitress and then bartender in nightclubs for over 20 years. I watched the gals go for the bouncers, the bartenders, and the owners. Every single night. Lol
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