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Is an Open Marriage a Happier Marriage?
NY Times ^ | May 11, 2017 | Susan Dominus

Posted on 05/12/2017 4:42:19 AM PDT by C19fan

When Daniel and Elizabeth married in 1993, they found it was easy enough to choose a ring for her, but there were far fewer choices for him. Daniel, then a 27-year-old who worked in information technology, decided to design one himself, requesting that tiny stones be placed in a gold band, like planets orbiting in a solar system. He was happy with the ring, and what it represented, until it became obvious after the wedding that he was allergic to the nickel that was mixed in with the gold in the band. As if in revolt, his finger grew red and raw, beneath the circle of metal. He started to think of the ring as if it were radioactive, an object burning holes in his flesh. A month into the marriage, he took it off and never got around to replacing it.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: culturalrevolution; feminazism; genderwars; marriage; polygamy; smashmonogamy; weatherunderground
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MSM paving the way for polygamy.
1 posted on 05/12/2017 4:42:20 AM PDT by C19fan
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To: C19fan

Open marriage is an oxymoron.


2 posted on 05/12/2017 4:43:38 AM PDT by mewzilla (Was Obama surveilling John Roberts? Might explain a lot.)
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To: C19fan

Hmmmm, if I could clone my hubby, I might consider polyandry :-)


3 posted on 05/12/2017 4:45:00 AM PDT by mewzilla (Was Obama surveilling John Roberts? Might explain a lot.)
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To: C19fan

That’s really disgusting ... NY Slimes is actively celebrating perversity.


4 posted on 05/12/2017 4:45:52 AM PDT by NorthMountain (The Democrats ... have lost their grip on reality -DJT)
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To: C19fan

Does the left ever stop thinking with it’s genitals?


5 posted on 05/12/2017 4:46:19 AM PDT by Kudsman ( Anyone to the Right of Stalin is a Far Right Wing candidate to the Far Left Wing Media.)
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To: Kudsman

There’s no thinking involved. Just the genitals.


6 posted on 05/12/2017 4:47:31 AM PDT by mewzilla (Was Obama surveilling John Roberts? Might explain a lot.)
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To: Kudsman
short answer: no
longer answer: occasionally, just to think of how superior they are for their social justice beliefs.
7 posted on 05/12/2017 4:57:58 AM PDT by rb22982
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To: C19fan

No.


8 posted on 05/12/2017 5:03:41 AM PDT by SoFloFreeper
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To: C19fan

Is not a marriage as much a commitment to God as each other? True intimacy is a gift from heaven and I am not sure how you experience it when you dishonor the commitment you made before the Lord. I mean maybe this works for some people but it doesn’t even process for me. You either have the marriage commitment and keep it intact or what is the point of it? I guess I don’t understand their perspective. I freely admit that I never in my life want to understand their perspective, either.


9 posted on 05/12/2017 5:05:09 AM PDT by Caipirabob (Communists... Socialists... Democrats...Traitors... Who can tell the difference?)
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“I really just felt like it was right, like it was important to my growth. It was like I was choosing to take a stand for my own pleasure and sticking to it. It was so strong, that feeling.”

So the first open-ended wife (can I say that?), Elizabeth, stood up for her right to pursue pleasure.

Oh, what courage. Oh, what a cutting-edge idea. Oh, what a lifestyle trail-blazer she is, determined for the first time in human history "to boldly go where no woman has gone before."

Oh, what a crock.

10 posted on 05/12/2017 5:05:33 AM PDT by Mrs. Don-o (The women's revolt. Some women are revolting.)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

Well said.


11 posted on 05/12/2017 5:12:22 AM PDT by Tax-chick ("I prefer to think of myself as ... civilized." ~Jonathan Q. Higgins)
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To: rb22982

New York Times is really getting hard up for copy. Wow. New lows in journalism. NO, it will not work, an open marriage.


12 posted on 05/12/2017 5:13:42 AM PDT by rovenstinez
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To: C19fan

How funny! Of course not! I really believe an open marriage is the couple stating we really should end our marriage, but are too chicken shiet to face the world. So why not give this a go.


13 posted on 05/12/2017 5:20:06 AM PDT by HypatiaTaught (Trump's victory makes me smile 24/7)
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To: C19fan

Just the destruction of “marriage” by undermining it in everyway.
Whether polygamy or open marriage or the already approved homosexual marriage, on all fronts until we’re all atomized and alone, interchangeable in relationships but equally dependent on the state.


14 posted on 05/12/2017 5:22:55 AM PDT by tbw2
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To: mewzilla
When my lovely wife turned 40, I teased her that I was thinking about trading her in on two 20's.

She said, "Great. I could use some extra help around the house."

Ziiiing! No reply. I know when I've been aced.

15 posted on 05/12/2017 5:28:08 AM PDT by wbill
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To: wbill

LOL! A witty mate and a spouse who appreciates her wit. Good for you both :-)


16 posted on 05/12/2017 5:30:38 AM PDT by mewzilla (Was Obama surveilling John Roberts? Might explain a lot.)
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To: mewzilla

;-) I married up.


17 posted on 05/12/2017 5:31:27 AM PDT by wbill
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To: wbill

Ditto. :-)


18 posted on 05/12/2017 5:32:21 AM PDT by mewzilla (Was Obama surveilling John Roberts? Might explain a lot.)
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To: wbill
She said, "Great. I could use some extra help around the house."

It is every woman’s fantasy to have three men at the same time. One cleaning the bathroom, one cooking dinner and one weeding the flowerbeds.

19 posted on 05/12/2017 5:45:09 AM PDT by FatherofFive (Islam is EVIL and needs to be eradicated)
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It is every woman’s fantasy to have three men at the same time. One cleaning the bathroom, one cooking dinner and one weeding the flowerbeds.

Jeez, I'm triplets. No wonder I'm so tired ...

20 posted on 05/12/2017 5:48:12 AM PDT by BlueLancer (Ex Scientia Tridens)
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