Seriously!
No one should have their children in public schools in these blue states.
In any states, however...
If you think there’s no nonsense in parochial schools, you’re in for a surprise. Many of them are problematic also.
HOME SCHOOL is the best, and I think the ONLY answer.
As a parent I would work the programs as supplied, but I’d be mindful if I were giving my kids the education they needed to function in our society.
Folks shouldn’t try to make something more out of that than is implied. If I wasn’t getting them up to speed on math, I’d want to supplement some way. That’s all.