Having had a relationship where someone convinced family members of things that werent true, I can say with authority that people outside rooms and homes, have no way of knowing truth in these matters.
Physical evidence may or may not reveal what actually took place.
Here it does sound like she has a good case against the guy, and she may. I lean toward believing her, but I do have a history with someone who lied. It was a person people would not have thought could lie like that too. Whats more, that person wasnt what youd think of as a bad person at all outside that.
If you go through a situation like this, it will forever change your ability to trust you are hearing the gospel truth when people tell you things.
I can relate to what just said. Our family had accusations within that had zero foundation and no physical evidence as to what happened if anything. Decades later it came to light nothing happened, that a therapist based sexual misconduct on how a patient was acting, which was supposedly typical of sexual abuse.
What proved true later was the symptoms were a sign of something that had nothing to do with sexual abuse. The pain created by this false accusation (by the therapist) and subsequent witch hunt will exist until all family members are gone.
This leftist mindset that the severity of charge alone (without evidence) is enough to convict is pure stupidity, and the public falls for it all the time.