“”The focus of our group isn’t on sex,””
I remember years ago when homosexuality was beginning to be talked about openly, the ones AFFLICTED said it had nothing to do with sex! They just enjoyed one another’s company. Attending movies, events, museums etc., together. Just had a lot in common!
Any time a group leads in saying ‘it’s not about sex’....you can with certainty know that it is about what they’re trying to say it’s not.