sacrifice ?
you must be joking
The first thing you want to do when you find yourself in a hole... is stop digging.
No I am not. There was a time when public service or service to country meant just that. This nurse volunteered to go overseas to save soldiers when the Third Reich was on the march. This was in the 40’s and 50’s, not the PC world of today. She would not have risen to the rank of General had she not shown skill, leadership, and patriotism of the highest order.
Not everyone has to serve in order to be a good person, live a good life, and be thought of in death for their positive contributions.
But since you want to insult her in her casket, what have you done with your life that you would deserve any better an obituary than you would bestow on her?