Right you are. And because the bakers didn't refuse service due to the lesbian's "lifestyle choice" but rather a government sanctioned INSTITUTION (gay marriage) they did not discriminate due to a lifestyle choice.
I am unlearned in this matter, but it seems to me that Jesus himself would not condone "gay marriage." That man/woman cleaving thing and "be fruitful and multiply" thing is all over the Bible, right?
But like I said, I'm no expert and have no right to speak for Jesus.
Now you’re on to a subject that makes me mad... the government should not be sanctioning ANY marriage. At best, the government can create their own civil unions and do whatever the heck they want with that.
Marriage is a union before God between a man and a woman. Period.