No, she didn’t have sex! She got drunk, passed out and he helped himself to ‘party favors’ while she was unconscious. That’s RAPE!
I honestly can't figure out what happened here? What is a party favor?
Well, that depends on the facts. If he had intercourse while she was out, THAT is rape. If he molested her digitally (as someone upthread stated), that’s sexual assault or molestation, not rape.
Words DO matter. We should use them precisely.
She may have been raped, but she was also stupid for putting herself in the situation of being passed out drunk among strangers.
Hopefully she’s smartness up since then.