Sounds like you have some issues you need to work through. You are projecting a bit there...
No. Watching aroused men taking care of business, with close ups, is gay. I wont go into further detail, but the focus is obvious. Comedian Ron White did a bit on that. Pretty funny.
Your opinion is yours. Good to know you have one.
Nowhere is it written that I have to agree with it though. :-)
However, I would still point out that even if I did agree... Giving government control over such things is just outright idiotic.