Dying with and dying of are two very different things. If I have a heart attack tonight and they find cancer cells in my body on autopsy I did not die of cancer.
That is how they are counting the numbers. Yes an unusual number of people in nursing homes died but I’m sure quite a few of those died while incidentally having the coronavirus.
Big difference than dying from it
I wonder what the ratio is of people who actually died of coronavirus to the number of people who lost their jobs due to the shutdowns.