Right-She’s like a LOT of women who make ruinous life-decisions.
It never occurs to them that the flaws and failings of their ‘spouse’ will eventually cost them as well.
I watched a doc. about a young mother with an infant daughter at home. The mom was selling some of her prescription meds to some very ugly and dangerous types.
In one of her drug deals, IN HER OWN HOME, the buyers (one was the mom’s ‘boyfriend’) shot the place up, including the child who was asleep asleep in the same room. After many surgeries the child survived but the mother was killed.
Throughout the whole doc, the parents of the young mother knew but never mentioned that their daughter was dealing drugs. Tearfully, they kept saying, ‘Who could do such a thing to our daughter and her child?’
Police described it all in the end... and any idiot could have guessed that, anyway.
That young woman had absolutely NO regard for her daughter and NO common sense in her life choices.
you are correct.
People always say “it happened to them” when they put themselves in the middle of a shitstorm.
Bad life choices are a real thing, and have consequences.