Well, once you're in the situation she's in you make the best of it. I'd be willing to bet that, if asked, she'd say she'd erase the whole thing if she could. I have heard her say in interviews how hard it has been for her. She is certainly not blameless - after all, she was servicing a married (even if in name only) man - but she was really just a naive kid at the time. It ruined her life.
I don’t know a single girl who kept a “stained” dress.
You and I just disagree. You think she was a foolish kid, I think she was a slut. To each his own...