If only they would devote just 10% of those energies on planning for their MARRIAGE!
Guys dont do this because men do not need marriage. Marriage has always been insurance/protection/security for the woman. Men have to work and provide for themselves or they die. If that were not true we’d have had social services and welfare systems set up for men, but history records that did not happen, and almost all social programs are geared towards women and children, not men. Men through taxes pay for those programs.