That’s not just your kids or ex-wife. Pretty much every human being is an expert WELL WHAT ABOUT YOU’er. It’s the wide road device to deflect truth. We’ve all had to learn from authorities who said one thing and did another. But was the teaching actually of truth? If so we’re individually on the hook for it, to respond to it in spite of another’s hypocrisy.
“The scribes and Pharisees sit in Moses’ seat. So practice and observe everything they tell you. But do not do what they do,”—Jesus