” The Japanese women are hot, but they don’t want their men.”
You are right about the former , but wrong about the latter . Gross exaggeration .
You are welcome to explain why the average Japanese man doesn’t bother trying to go out with women. Usually, for the average man, they don’t go out because going out alone means coming home alone most of the time. It’s a waste of time until marriage.
That’s how hypergamy works.
For marriage in Japan, you are heading 30 years or older, because of the educational requirements these days.