My youngest has Asbergers.
He tried for years to make friends. No one wanted to hang with the weird kid.
Ironically, he flourish on-line. Had a successful youtube channel, set up servers, gathered friends from across the country. He even has a lovely, very pretty girlfriend (she lives an hour away and they see each other on weekends) and is talking marriage.
It’s a different world and he used technology to his advantage.
But you are correct; there are too many people who live on the computer.
I've probably got it, too.
Regards,
Your son created a new normal for himself. Very smart.