I'm not a demo expert, but I've seen people play them on TV *grin*
All I know is what they showed us in the army, and stuff I've read since:
Re 1) far as I know, there are sniffers (canine & electronic) that can detect the presence of explosives, but I don't know of any technology that can detonate them remotely.
Re 2) Only thing I can think of is a fuse train isn't instantaneous- but even there, i would think an instantaneous grenade fuse (like in a smoke grenade) attached to some det cord leading into your charge would do the trick.
Lefty? Stumps? 3 Finger Bob? Any ex-demo boys out there who could clear this up?
I'll start searching and flag a few folks that look like they may know more.
I'm curious.