If God is in control in sense you mean, then no one would ever go to Hell, because it is His will that "none should perish," but all should come to eternal life. Nope, God gave US the control in this earth, and if we operate in line with HIS laws, then in a sense we "are" in control.
Your argument is like saying that you aren't in control of your light switch---the power company is. Yes, that's where the power IS---but the power company doesn't "control" your use of that power, you do.