I have never fire a 44 that thing must have one hell of a kick to it
.44 magnum, yes
.44 special is a pussy cat. It can be hand-loaded to considerable velocity, but factory loads are easy on the shooter.
My S&W N-framed Model 24 with a 3" barrel.
That big old heavy frame soaks up all the recoil. I've put a set Miculek stocks and some Meprolight tritium night sights.