From your post it seems you don't mind control, as long as you're the one doing the controlling.
I practice a type of segregation in my own life, and will continue to do so. That is, there are people who I don't want around me because their deficiencies or characteristics are repunant to me and an imposition upon me that I don't want. It is an equal opportunity action that crosses racial lines.
I have no idea what racial or ethnic group to which you belong. But, I can tell you you are a member of the inherently lower classes with whom I want no association, an who I want to have no control over my life. You will always be on the outside looking an among people of any quality or stature. You will always be justifiably rejected by those who are other than your kind. Your only hope of achieving membership in anything is to force yourself upon other people through violation of their rights. It may not be to your liking that people in a free society have a right to reject or separate themselves from other people on a reasonable, or sometimes unreasoned basis. But it is not a right that you granted to anybody. Neither is it a right you have permission to take from other people with you and your friend's "bull whips" as you put it.
Basically, you are aggressively evil and have no respect for the principles of a free society.