Honest to God, about a week ago a thirteen year old white girl at school came over to the van, which I was driving to pick up our boys from the home, and looked over the boys. She told them that she went only with black dudes.
This is the same girl that wrote a letter to a Sudanese boy at the home, calling him sexy man and telling him that she wanted him to do a threesome with her and her Native American friend.
But many young white girls are looking for black dudes now. I see it all the time here.
This isn't too much different from my HS years, when girls were told that if they didn't "put out" (archaiac slang even for my time) that proved they were "lezzies" (ie, lesbians). There's always people out there who try to use anything to manipulate the insecure into doing their bidding.
And then there's cases like that of my 18 year old adopted niece . Her Biomom was a drug addict and an alcoholic. She is bipolar, ADD/ADHD, possible FAS-she will never have a normal life. She's by no means retarded, but she's incapable of concentrating, and so she cannot go to college. She won't take her meds. Anyhow, she moved out on my sister, and has since tried to blackmail her into paying rent, buying her a car, etc, by threatening to get pregnant. Her idea was to have the kid, and then force my sister to support it. When that didn't work, she tried to "up the ante" by threatening to go with, and get pregnant by, "a black guy". (Guess just any "black guy".) Still didn't work. My sister told her that if she (the niece) had a child , it was her responsibility, and she would not be financially responsible for the child.
I applaud my sister for sticking to her guns, and for refusing to be blackmailed . But it just goes to show that for some girls (not all of them with mental/emotional problems) "a black guy" is not a person in their eyes, he's just a "thing" to use to annoy their parents. Or a trophy to parade around, silently proclaiming,"See! I'm a nonracist! Aren't I noble?"
My niece is not a monster, though I realize my story makes her sound like one. Right now, she's living with a 21 year old TOOTHLESS white guy who gets SSI , and his mom.(ie, a crack addict and his mom. Loss of teeth at so young an age is a sign of severe drug abuse.) They live in a filthy single wide trailer. She is not (yet) pregnant. The two seem to think my sister is rich, and they want to use my niece as a cash cow, and she's too naive to see what they're up to. Frankly, I pity any "black guy" who goes near her, if she's not given up her little scheme, as he's risking 18-21 years of CS payments. And I pity any child she conceives, no matter who the father. S/he'll have very little chance at a decent future.