[BlackElk]

Far be it from me to suggest how you and your spouse ought to conduct your intimate relations. Far be it from you to be doing likewise toward others. Is this post also not a criticism. If not, we are not talking the same language across the theological divide and this is one more reason for Christians of differing persuasions not to entertain our mutual enemies by flaing one another.

[BlackElk]

That was, ofcourse, "flaming."

[Notwithstanding]

i thought you meant flaying!