A minor quibble with an otherwise excellent article.
Gays in the priesthood have no problems with the vow of celibacy. They can't get married anyway (yet) so are giving up *nothing* by taking a vow of celibacy.
The focus needs to be on the vow of *chastity.*
Accept the responsibility of your office, admit you were wrong and then move out of the way so that the trust can return.