Me being decidedly in the pull-up-yer-boot-straps-and-buckle-to-it camp, I have little patience for what I consider to be partly (I said partly, y'all) a self-induced character flaw. Y'all can start in now with "you don't understand! It's a disease! It's a chemical imbalance! You insensitive clod" but let me ask you this-- how does one really know how much of the behavior in question stems from genuine illness of sorts, and how much is, as I said above, manipulation on the part of the "affected" individual? One doesn't know. I admit that I tend to withhold benefit of doubt in this area...
I guess if they actually succeed in snuffing themselves you know they weren't faking it.