Which came first, the stripping or the hate? In logic, the cart is always getting in front of the horse.
Strippers are an interesting bunch. Sometimes they are drug abusers, needing quick money. Sometimes just college girls, wanting to see what their pretty shapes will bring them on the market. The experience on the dance floors do bad things to their minds--often they embark on a long flirtation with lesbianism because they become so disillusioned with men. But the strip-joint attracts jerks...of course that's what she'll see.
It's like an exchange I had recently with a FR fellow who wanted to compare women to overripe fruit. Yuck. He disdained womenkind because the kind he met in bars turned out not to have Sunday School morals. It's all in where you look.
If you want to know all about the psychology and sociology of exotic dancers, hang around an emergency room for awhile. They get lots of diseases, you see. And such creative tattoos.