Interesting, how can you be a wiccan wrong? "An it harm none do thy own will". I guess if you are into harming it would be the wrong way to be a wiccan. It seems like the doctrine is very open ended.
Yes, there are many gays, since they find acceptance.
Well, I have seen some, but I do not associate with them. However, what does this have to do with religion? This is between a person and his/her God.
What 'this' do you mean?
"An it harm none do thy own will".
The word WILL was used for a very important purpose. It was not "do anything you desire" or "hey, anything is allowed."
No, the word WILL was used as an expression of your Spirituality and Morality.
There are many times in your life that you may desire to do something, but because of your morality, your WILL prevents it from happening. This is Wisdom, Experience and is a major part of educating a new Wiccan.
This is so close to the Christian "Golden Rule", it is often used in debates on religious history.