[Lilly]

Why are you so defensive? Why do you suggest I start a new thread? Anyone is allowed to comment here. What's your problem?

[netmilsmom]

You are right, anyone is allowed to post here. In America anyone is allowed to give an opinion. Anyone is allowed to be as shallow and crass as they would like. My mother taught me that if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all. If you don't say anything, you do not prove you are meanspirited or nasty. People tend to assume you will not insult anyone for trying to be nice.