Expelling them would be a perfectly acceptable solution to me. But, even if you you don't buy the "boys will be boys shtick," it will continue from generation to generation because it is a normal course of events. My "wrist-slapping" recommendation is that they be charged with assault. Their (adult?) peers should decide their fate.
The fact that one of these wrestlers is a competitive state level wrestler is probably influencing events. I say slap him down and be done with it.
it will continue from generation to generation because it is a normal course of events.
Forcibly shaving pubic hair is a "normal course of events?"
It is sexual assault. You want to call it something else. That's denial. That's enabling.
We don't have to accept this behavior as "the normal course of events." This is not alpha male horseplay. Let's call it what it is: twisted, perverse, and sadistic.
