[ClearCase_guy]

I think that we as a society need to create a situation where gay men don't feel the pressure to get married

I hope we as a society create a situation where people who feel they are homosexual recognize that it is a mental illness and can be cured.

[hoosierskypilot]

I disagree that it's a mental illness. IMO, it's a choice. Like becoming an alcoholic. A person chooses to start drinking, chooses to continue drinking, and then the inevitable happens.

To classify such deviance as illness is to give credence to the idea that one is not responsible for one's choices.