[Theresawithanh]

I have a friend who knew of a couple this happened to. Forget how long they were married, but he was "in the closet", until he got AIDS from one of his contacts, passing the disease on to his wife. Truly a terrible situation!

Don't know whether someone is "born gay" or not, although I strongly suspect it is a lifestyle choice which is made, often with dire and deadly consequences.

[onedoug]

Why Judaism Rejected Homosexuality

We can say “chosen” because the vast majority of gay men have had intercourse with women. As a four-year study of 128 gay men by a UCLA professor of psychology revealed, “More than 92 percent of the gay men had dated a woman at some time, two-thirds had sexual intercourse with a woman.” As of now, the one theory we can rule out is that homosexuals are biologically programmed to be homosexual. Despite an understandably great desire on the part of many to prove it (and my own inclination to believe it), there is simply no evidence that homosexuality is biologically determined.