A lot of men are screwed by the system. My step father was, and it was rough with the five of us living off what he made on unemployment while he had to continue making child support payments to a women who was making in exess of $70,000 a year.
He doesn't think all women are evil. He's broad minded enough to know that stereotyping is hateful, hurtful and plain dumb. Perhaps that's why he's still happily married to my mother.
I was an abused wife toward the end of my marriage. That is why I ended it. My ex husband's manipulation, and the manipulations of his lawyer (who is also a friend and admirer of F Lee Baily) gave me a nervous breakdown and landed my son in a mental hospital for 11 months because all he wanted to do was kill his father.
I do not believe all men are evil. I believe with all my heart that stereotyping is hateful, hurtful and really stupid. Perhaps that's why I'm happily married.
It would be really nice if those of us with axes to grind quit making blanket condemnations of entire genders. Sounds an awful lot like the mindset which contributes to couples at war.