[Truthsearcher]

That a risk everyone takes in marriage, either party can improve themselves during the marriage and then opt to "trade in" for a better spouse, it's no different from the guy who is poor, marries, become a successful businessmen, and decides he wants the pretty girl rather than his middle-aged wife

[mabelkitty]

Don't forget that these middle-aged women change during this transition. They become materialistic, grasping, cynical social-climbers, so to blame it all on a guy who wants a young chick isn't correct either. He may just want somebody who isn't busting his balls all the time or ignoring him in favor of the children or her social status.