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Children are the losers in this sexual revolution
The Scotsman ^ | Tue 6 May 2003 | GILLIAN BOWDITCH

Posted on 05/07/2003 12:31:05 AM PDT by nickcarraway

THE natural course of the human mind may indeed range from credulity to scepticism, as Thomas Jefferson wryly observed, but these days the natural course of the average newspaper reader’s mind veers from boggle-eyed amazement to slack-jawed horror.

Belief didn’t have to be suspended so much as expelled indefinitely yesterday. No sooner had we swallowed the story: "Scotland’s cricketers enjoy winning debut" than we were reading about the current vogue for Blue Nun wine and marvelling over the ingenuity of the masked Japanese politician who is moonlighting as a wrestling porn star.

After that, the antics of William Wotherspoon, a former soldier with the Parachute Regiment, seemed almost pedestrian. Mr Wotherspoon, a father of four, underwent a full sex-change operation at the Nuffield Hospital in Sussex and changed his name to Lisa-Anne Docherty. So far, so conventional; just an everyday story of gender realignment in Lanarkshire.

Before the operation, however, he met Lisa-Marie Barraclough and decided to have another baby. When natural conception failed, Wotherspoon bought a plastic syringe, a fridge with an accurate temperature control and 18 little plastic phials in which to store his sperm samples. He then went ahead with the sex-change operation. After five attempts to impregnate herself with the contents of the fridge, Barraclough became pregnant and give birth to a daughter in Wishaw General Hospital seven weeks ago.

The baby, it has been decided, is to call Barraclough "mummy" and Wotherspoon "maddy", an amalgam of mummy and daddy. Confused? That is nothing to what the child is likely to feel when she poses the inevitable question: "Where do babies come from, maddy?"

The Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority is expected to investigate the case, which throws up more ethical dilemmas than a delegation of bishops at an Anne Summers party. It is illegal to freeze sperm or human eggs without a licence. There is, however, no law against storing your genetic material alongside the Lurpak and the leftover chicken in the fridge.

There may, of course, be more to this story than meets the eye. Wotherspoon was spared a jail sentence to allow his sex-change operation to go ahead, and some medical experts have doubted his paternity. Even assuming it is true, and Wotherspoon says he is prepared to undergo a DNA test to prove it, it sounds like an outlandish story.

But this is not a unique case. One London fertility clinic is already routinely inviting transsexuals to store their sperm prior to surgery, a service 90 per cent of men undergoing the operation say they would use. Professor Gedis Grudzinskas, of the London Bridge Clinic, believes transsexuals should be given the opportunity to father children once they become women as a matter of course.

Professor Paul De Sutter, who runs the infertility clinic at Ghent University Hospital, Belgium, goes further: "It may even be our duty as healthcare professionals to help transsexual people fulfil their wish for children." If this means finding a surrogate mother to carry the baby, he says, so be it. "These men want to preserve their ability to procreate," he declares.

Assisted conception is rapidly becoming the modern equivalent of the freak show, with the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Auth-ority expected to adjudicate in cases which make the family life of Oedipus look benign.

Last year, Glasgow Sheriff Court had to rule on a disturbing paternity battle involving two lesbians and a homosexual donor father. Man Not Included, the first internet sperm donor service for lesbians and single women, will deliver sperm to your door for £680. Demand is high; over 4,000 women have registered with the site.

In the quest for personal fulfilment, genetic material is traded over the internet, mixed in surgical dishes and available to anyone irrespective of age, sex or motive as long as they can pay. It is left to the courts to sort out the mess.

At the heart of the matter is the selfish determination of a generation to pursue any lifestyle it chooses irrespective of the cost to society as a whole. If you worship at the cult of the individual, however, the gods demand sacrifice and that sacrifice is increasingly being paid by children.

They are the main losers in the social and sexual revolution which has taken place in Britain since the war. Prior to the Fifties, when the concept of children’s rights was unknown, most children could expect to be raised by both biological parents, an upbringing which countless studies have shown gives them the best chances in life. Now, when, children’s rights are invoked against everything from the wearing of school uniform to the sitting of exams, children are increasingly at the mercy of a society intent on promoting adults’ interests at their expense. We are championing the wrong rights.

Children can be separated from a biological parent, split up from their siblings, removed from their school, denied access to grandparents, made to accept a complete stranger as a surrogate parent and moved to another part of the country without consultation or warning.

We choose to ignore these uncomfortable facts because we know life isn’t perfect, because we have made these agonising decisions ourselves or have sympathised with friends who have done so. We turn away quickly from the uncomfortable news that there has been a 50 per cent rise in referrals to the children’s panel of children suffering from parental neglect.

Now science has reduced babies to the status of commodities. Your partner may be gay, dead or non-existent, but that will not preclude your right to procreate.

There is no doubt that in-vitro fertilisation has been a huge force for good and has brought happiness to thousands. One in every 80 children born in Britain is believed to be an IVF baby. Most are raised in loving homes by parents who have their best interests at heart.

It is equally true that the intentions which have brought us to the point where children conceived in the laboratory can be raised by people who may not be their legal guardian, may not be a blood relative and may not have their welfare at heart, are noble. Equality and non-discrimination, the twin creeds of modern society, must be obeyed.

Heterosexual or homosexual, married or single, over 50 or under 50, in a stable relationship or a casual one, everybody has the right to parenthood. But of course there is discrimination. Those discriminated against are the children who have no guarantee of a stable childhood or of life with a biological parent and who end up reliant on the courts to sort out their basic identity.

The fact that some children conceived naturally face similar problems does not make this laissez-faire attitude a desirable model. It is 13 years since the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Act was passed and since then the technology has advanced so rapidly that the law has not been able to keep up, as one disturbing court case after another has demonstrated.

When we’ve reached a point where infertility professors claim to have a duty to help transsexual men become both mother and father to a child, it is clearly time to toughen the guidelines. The prospect of a regiment of sex-changed maddies is stretching our credulity a bit too far.


TOPICS: Activism/Chapters; Constitution/Conservatism; Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Editorial; United Kingdom
KEYWORDS: catholiclist; itsjustsex; putsomeiceonthat; selfgratification; sex
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1 posted on 05/07/2003 12:31:06 AM PDT by nickcarraway
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To: nickcarraway
Freedom without laws is a riot!
2 posted on 05/07/2003 12:47:33 AM PDT by Russell Scott (The answer is Jesus Christ, what's the question?)
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To: nickcarraway
Future generations are going to be very angry with the current ones.
3 posted on 05/07/2003 12:49:18 AM PDT by Jeff Chandler (This tagline has been banned.)
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To: nickcarraway
"Where do babies come from, maddy?"

I swear, I don't understand this species at all...

4 posted on 05/07/2003 1:02:45 AM PDT by MrJingles ("Nietzsche is dead." - God)
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To: nickcarraway; sauropod
"These men want to preserve their ability to procreate," he declares.

Then they shouldn't cut their dicks off, sheesh...

5 posted on 05/07/2003 5:50:58 AM PDT by hellinahandcart
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To: hellinahandcart
"Paging Dr Kutchakokhov, addadictomy in room 9."
6 posted on 05/07/2003 7:11:00 AM PDT by Sender
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To: nickcarraway; Remedy
Weird.
7 posted on 05/07/2003 7:11:51 AM PDT by George W. Bush
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To: nickcarraway; scripter; Polycarp
Bump & Ping
8 posted on 05/07/2003 7:44:13 AM PDT by EdReform (Support Free Republic - Become a monthly donor!)
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To: EdReform; .45MAN; AKA Elena; al_c; american colleen; Angelus Errare; Antoninus; aposiopetic; ...
Thanks for the ping.

Now science has reduced babies to the status of commodities. Your partner may be gay, dead or non-existent, but that will not preclude your right to procreate.

Just one more subject where, as usual, The Roman Catholic Church has been 100% correct from day one:

2375 Research aimed at reducing human sterility is to be encouraged, on condition that it is placed "at the service of the human person, of his inalienable rights, and his true and integral good according to the design and will of God."166

2376 Techniques that entail the dissociation of husband and wife, by the intrusion of a person other than the couple (donation of sperm or ovum, surrogate uterus), are gravely immoral. These techniques (heterologous artificial insemination and fertilization) infringe the child's right to be born of a father and mother known to him and bound to each other by marriage. They betray the spouses' "right to become a father and a mother only through each other."167

2377 Techniques involving only the married couple (homologous artificial insemination and fertilization) are perhaps less reprehensible, yet remain morally unacceptable. They dissociate the sexual act from the procreative act. The act which brings the child into existence is no longer an act by which two persons give themselves to one another, but one that "entrusts the life and identity of the embryo into the power of doctors and biologists and establishes the domination of technology over the origin and destiny of the human person. Such a relationship of domination is in itself contrary to the dignity and equality that must be common to parents and children."168 "Under the moral aspect procreation is deprived of its proper perfection when it is not willed as the fruit of the conjugal act, that is to say, of the specific act of the spouses' union . . . . Only respect for the link between the meanings of the conjugal act and respect for the unity of the human being make possible procreation in conformity with the dignity of the person."169

9 posted on 05/07/2003 8:03:53 AM PDT by Polycarp ("When a mother can kill her own child, what is left of the West to save?" - Mother Theresa)
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To: Polycarp
bump.
10 posted on 05/07/2003 8:20:09 AM PDT by Cap'n Crunch
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To: nickcarraway
When we’ve reached a point where infertility professors claim to have a duty to help transsexual men become both mother and father to a child, it is clearly time to toughen the guidelines

Oops! This journalist may soon be out of a job once the PC crowd gets wind of this article. The Scotsman? What type of circulation do they .... er .... did they have prior to this?

Of course, the journalist is absolutely correct. We're going to hell in a handcart. The children are indeed the victims of a selfish, greedy, self-centered society.

11 posted on 05/07/2003 8:20:17 AM PDT by NYer (Laudate Dominum)
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To: Polycarp
If you worship at the cult of the individual, however, the gods demand sacrifice and that sacrifice is increasingly being paid by children.

I've been saying for years that it's plain old-fashioned human sacrifice. There's nothing new under the sun. The fate of the Carthaginians and the Mayans is particularly instructive.

12 posted on 05/07/2003 8:26:39 AM PDT by Tax-chick (Deo Vindice Christian School - "You may be whatever you resolve to be.")
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To: nickcarraway
Where are we going, and why are we in this handbasket? Why is there fire and brimstone down there? Why is that man with the pitchfork laughing at us? Why are all those other people down there weeping and wailing and gnashing their teeth? We just wanted to live a hedonistic lifesytle. Can we continue doing so when we get to where we're going?

13 posted on 05/07/2003 9:42:17 AM PDT by Luna (Evil will not triumph...God is at the helm)
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To: nickcarraway
Yes, children, but also the mothers who canno bear children due to the killi....er....abortion.
14 posted on 05/07/2003 9:44:43 AM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Polycarp
**"When a mother can kill her own child, what is left of the West to save?" - Mother Theresa**

Fantastic tagline!
15 posted on 05/07/2003 9:47:03 AM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Salvation
**but also the mothers who canno bear children due to the killi....er....abortion.**
canno == cannot
16 posted on 05/07/2003 9:47:52 AM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: nickcarraway
BUMP
17 posted on 05/07/2003 9:48:09 AM PDT by independentmind
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To: nickcarraway
Excellent post! Poor kids.
18 posted on 05/07/2003 11:49:55 AM PDT by RAT Patrol (Congress can give one American a dollar only by first taking it away from another American. -W.W.)
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To: nickcarraway
This is so sad. A parent's strongest instincts are to do whatever is best for their child. But these people are so obsessed with their own agenda and lifestyle that they are willing to risk messing up their kids' lives in order to indoctrinate a new generation.

I hope these kids will be strong enough to not be screwed up by their parent's choices. Otherwise we will have a whole new generation of problems to deal with.
19 posted on 05/07/2003 1:05:36 PM PDT by BamaGirl
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To: Luna
I don't believe God punishes us for the sins of our brothers and sisters. If we live a good righteous life (we, individually) then we shall reap the awards promised to us in the afterlife.

I say we leave the judging to the Lord, lest we be judged ourselves.

God bless.
20 posted on 05/07/2003 1:17:37 PM PDT by Laurie S
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