In so many ways..its a social club..a very large social club.
I have met many who tried to stay in community church fellowship..sadly many have simply been wore down from the endless Judgemental mechanics and discerned its better to live apart and embrace ones views..than be a hyprocrite.
Lets be brutally honest here on the Judgemental mechanics that is myriad within the church.
You must perform to fit in..and live like a hypocrite..as you condemn and judge others..while entertaining all manner of vices in ones private life.
There are yet some observable churches which seem to have some balance..are productive in their communities...rescue often the disadvantaged..are patient with individuals with really messed up psychy's.
In my estimation..Christianity has become Compartmentalized..ie church for the rich..church for the poor..church for the weird and estranged.
The dynamic of judging is here at FR...just post a faith thread and you will see the judging and skull bashing;
the unrestrained tendency derails any chance of decent exploration on issues.
"I'm saved...you are not"!.."I know..but you do not"!;
Polarized madness : )
Bump for a SANE posting :-)