As I see it, conservatives don't blame queers, they blame society for falling for the gay agenda. That is, some folks don't care about being manipulated, desensitized and used while social conservatives refuse to be manipulated, desensitized and used.
The ignored warnings by conservative about the slippery slope of normalizing certain behavior is our beef. You may speak out against pedophiles now, but what about the next generation. How will the next generation view pedophiles? Just how far will society sink? It all starts somewhere, and as I said, that's our beef.