Assuming that your motivation is to find the right wife forever, making sure you are sexually compatible is as important as making sure you agree on children and handling money. Just last week, we celebrated our 25th anniversary. I credit the longevity of our marriage to our spending four years trying out every aspect of marriage before making the commitment - and to both of us trying out a lot of other partners first.
I credit our 42 years to not trying on every shoe to see if it fit..
Stats show the divorce rate is higher amount people that live together before marriage than those that do not
People that fall into the sack to see if they "fit" often substitute that for a relationship where they really have to talk about things and ideas and see if they will be friends AFTER they are married a couple of years
Advice to my children..marry a friend, it gives you something to talk about outside the bedroom beside "positions "
Hmmm. I wonder if God took that into consideration. /sarcasm/. I hear this excuse, even from guys who want a piece of me. To be looked at like a piece of meat to be tested I find revolting. (No, I am not that good looking.) For too many the prevailing line of thought, if it would be considered thought, is the piece of *ss is more important than the person it contains. Shouldn't it be something that is experienced and worth waiting for after marriage? If 2 people are that compatible on all other levels, how could it not be possible sexually? Or that they couldn't work it out sexually after? That line seems to me to be an excuse to make it ok, when you believe it to be against how you were brought up, or against your own morals, IMHO.
It's properly called fornication.
Assuming that your motivation is to find the right wife forever, making sure you are sexually compatible is as important as making sure you agree on children and handling money. Just last week, we celebrated our 25th anniversary. I credit the longevity of our marriage to our spending four years trying out every aspect of marriage before making the commitment - and to both of us trying out a lot of other partners first.
I'm sorry, but it is self-evident from what you have said that you do not, did not, and can never have the joy and intimacy of virignal marital love.
Cordially,
>>Assuming that your motivation is to find the right wife forever, making sure you are sexually compatible is as important as making sure you agree on children and handling money. <<
I was wondering how many posts I would have to read before common sense entered the picture. (29) Sex is a normal part of life between married folks. I think I'm correct about this after 27 years with the same lady.