You and your Lisa are indeed both in my prayers. May both she and her baby prove sound and healthy in this trying time, and may YOU take care of yourself as well. And I mean that - take time throughout the day to eat, sit down, and RELAX. Unnecessary worry only hurts your family, so don't do it.
Sorry to hear about the job; I'm in the same boat (although I live alone, can live on essentially nothing (a country boy can survive), and don't have near the family complications you do). Freepmail me if there is ANYTHING I can do to help.
Prayers going up.
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