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I am a 21 year old female, going to be a senior in college in the fall. I don't understand why dating is so harmful. My parents have been very present in the decisions that I have made about men. They have questioned me, talked with me and been active in my decision making. I dated through high school, not solidly, but I dated and I continue to date. I have met some boys, some men and some friends. I have also had a good time. I don't understand what harm has been inflicted on me. I think that as long as parents are there to support their children and and help their children and talk to them up front rather than avoiding the issue that the children will learn about respect and healthy relationships. Maybe I am wrong but that's the way I see it.

It's a choice, that's all, and I think in the environment of today's sex-saturated society, it's a better one......especially in High School.

At the age of 21, most people are mature enough to avoid the pitfalls that teenagers can fall into (teens are the ones I think should avoid dating). That's especially true of young adults like you (and our kids) who have healthy relationships with their parents.

btw, I'm not talking about going to the Prom, or Homecoming.....I'm talking about being in 'a relationship' in High School.